David Bowie built a whole career out of the thing the rest of us are told to hide: strangeness. Not strangeness survived, or managed, or apologised for — strangeness led with.
"Changes" (Hunky Dory, 1971) is the anthem for it: a song that turns to face the people doing the judging and tells them, plainly, not to tell the kids to grow up and out of it. The children spat on are quite aware of what they're going through.
That is our register exactly. Weird isn't a phase to outgrow or a deficit to correct. It's a stance. To turn and face the strange is to stop treating your own difference as a problem to be solved, and start treating it as a direction to move in.